I’m not glamorous. I’m a disabled working Mom who usually needs a nap. The inertia of domestic life means I rarely get out to do things. After all the required elements of domestic life, it feels like too much work to spramp myself up and go shopping or to a show. I live a comfortable life in the same square 15 miles most of the time.

In the past week, I’ve found myself in the company of spectacular friends. Three different wonderful humans spent time with me this week. With some, I shared delicious meals cooked by my talented husband. One friend and I went out to dinner and listened to David Sedaris make us laugh at the world and ourselves. Another friend and I spent time catching up, had breakfast with her character of a Dad, and went shopping.

I may have missed how special it all was if it hadn’t all been condensed into one week. One friend told me how talented I was and encouraged me to keep looking for the right opportunities to shine. One was kindly aware of my physical challenges and asked “Is walking this far ok for you?” and “Are these stairs ok? Do you need help?” One said she wanted to go shopping and then acted as my personal shopper and used it as a way to get me to spend time buying myself much-needed items I hadn’t made time to go find.

Recounting this brings me to actual tears. I am humbled by these crazy humans who chose me to love. I’m immensely grateful for all the time I get to spend with each of them. My friends are all so different and spectacular. They help me grow and see the world with fresh eyes. I endeavor to love them all as fully as they deserve.